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Jun 8, 2023Liked by LaDonna Witmer

It's awesome you got to wallow in the solitude. That made me smile. Except the part where I wish I could teleport there and ruin it by hanging out with you, of course.

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We're gonna have a Sarah/LaDonna solitude adventure on the misty moors one of these days, I swear it!

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Oh, don’t even get me started on “doing nothing.” We should often do nothing AND not feel guilty about it!! Bravo to you!

Also, I loved your article in the other publication. “And then we walked out the door like our legs were no big deal.” Yessss! And I don’t know about you, but I’m joyously impressed by the bodies of middle-aged Portuguese women on the beaches here- they wear the teeniest of swimsuits and THEY DON’T CARE!! It’s fabulous!!

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I’ve been in organizations that offered those personality tests to determine how you work best with others. I always came out 50-50 extrovert-introvert. And it helped me realize why my “battery runs down” after a few hours of socializing, even with one other person. (Conferences have always been challenging with all that interactive stimulation. I usually end up holing up in my hotel room to “recharge”.) I’ve learned to respect my introversion (introvertedness?) when guests visit by creating a framework for putting them on autopilot. For instance, I suggest day trips they can do on their own.

To be my best, I NEED time alone. Meditation is my best friend because it brings me back to me. I learn to fall more deeply in love with myself - I believe that love affair (thee most vital one) is not possible without “alone” time. Thanks always for your out loud contemplations; what a gift that you share!

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I too love my staycations!

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Thank you! For the reminder that solitude is so important.

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